1 post tagged “dilemma”
Yesterday was pretty interesting, apart from not having made more progress with my essay; two of my dearest friends faced different dilemmas in their life, one had man issues and the other graduation issues.
I feel I am well versed regarding both issues, one more than the other (you decide which). But each man to their own, I believe whatever doesn't break you makes you stronger. Its easy for me to comment from the outside and say its easy to get over the fear, disappointment, sadness, depression (maybe), worthlessness etc my friends' are feeling, but like I said it easy to 'comment'.
Going through a new bad situation and sometimes an old one(for those of us, that never learn from our first, second or third mistakes, or are still making one right now), has the ability to knock us off our feet and throw our common sense and caution out of the window. But what is a full life lived without any risks being taken?
You need to have the aches and breaks of life, you need to get into the nitty gritty of things, be open minded and spontaneous. I have some aches , but I am still working on the being open minded (only to certain topics) and being spontaneous (no alcohol, no drugs, no bungee jumping or no deep sea-diving), :)
There are so many different legal and morally clean avenues in life to experience and I believe it was one of my new year resolutions to explore them this very special year 2007. By the way I think I have about 40 resolutions or goals as I like to see them.
We all get 12 months, 52 weeks, 7 days a week, 24 hours, 1,440 minutes, 86,4000 seconds daily and we must be accountable for how we use. Oooh how I have wasted time on useless things like gossiping, being moody or cranky, putting things I wanted to do off, not meeting deadlines in work and life, sleeping too much etc.
So much time I have wasted and I can't account for, well not any more I want to be able to do something useful and worthwhile everyday,be it cheering someone up by telling them how wonderful and fabulous they are or thinking about how to make my first million or working towards for degree or learning a new language or designing my first fashion line and actually learning how to sew.
I want to make a difference how ever possible, a good difference not a bad one. We should all think of doing that, also maybe less selfishly. It might not make that difference in our life time, but maybe sometime.
Try something new, do not be afraid to think outside the box, like my title says those who are afraid to fall will never fly. Well I want to fly and I have definitely fallen a number of times and I know regardless and by God's grace if ever I fall again I will fly and soar higher than ever before.
So join me on this quest for improved self-belief and self-esteem renewed.
Adios xxx Till we meet again
I feel I am well versed regarding both issues, one more than the other (you decide which). But each man to their own, I believe whatever doesn't break you makes you stronger. Its easy for me to comment from the outside and say its easy to get over the fear, disappointment, sadness, depression (maybe), worthlessness etc my friends' are feeling, but like I said it easy to 'comment'.
Going through a new bad situation and sometimes an old one(for those of us, that never learn from our first, second or third mistakes, or are still making one right now), has the ability to knock us off our feet and throw our common sense and caution out of the window. But what is a full life lived without any risks being taken?
You need to have the aches and breaks of life, you need to get into the nitty gritty of things, be open minded and spontaneous. I have some aches , but I am still working on the being open minded (only to certain topics) and being spontaneous (no alcohol, no drugs, no bungee jumping or no deep sea-diving), :)
There are so many different legal and morally clean avenues in life to experience and I believe it was one of my new year resolutions to explore them this very special year 2007. By the way I think I have about 40 resolutions or goals as I like to see them.
We all get 12 months, 52 weeks, 7 days a week, 24 hours, 1,440 minutes, 86,4000 seconds daily and we must be accountable for how we use. Oooh how I have wasted time on useless things like gossiping, being moody or cranky, putting things I wanted to do off, not meeting deadlines in work and life, sleeping too much etc.
So much time I have wasted and I can't account for, well not any more I want to be able to do something useful and worthwhile everyday,be it cheering someone up by telling them how wonderful and fabulous they are or thinking about how to make my first million or working towards for degree or learning a new language or designing my first fashion line and actually learning how to sew.
I want to make a difference how ever possible, a good difference not a bad one. We should all think of doing that, also maybe less selfishly. It might not make that difference in our life time, but maybe sometime.
Try something new, do not be afraid to think outside the box, like my title says those who are afraid to fall will never fly. Well I want to fly and I have definitely fallen a number of times and I know regardless and by God's grace if ever I fall again I will fly and soar higher than ever before.
So join me on this quest for improved self-belief and self-esteem renewed.
Adios xxx Till we meet again
